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How To Get Over Ex in 24hrs
You see, I'm always asked, "What can I do after a break up while I'm still in love with my ex?" My answer has always been this, what do you want to do?
I know that is not the answer you've expected but it's strange that someone you used to love so much, the one you gave everything, turns out hurting you the most. As they say, "love is pain" there is always a price for it. It is easy when you are not in pain to say love is pain but when you are in love with someone who can't love you back it's like been in hell.
Can you imagine all that connection you had before... may be that sweet voice... all that "I love you"... those candles and romances, now gone in a thin air, that's bad isn't it?
What can you do?
Calling your ex is not the best advice. Asking for forgiveness to go back is even worse. So what can you do?
First you have to understand that love is nothing but a state of mind, it's how you feel about the other person. When you change that feeling, there is no love.
Let me explain it to you for a minute,
Just think about it, before you met your ex, you didn't feel anything about him or her. Even if I described how wonderful he or she is you wouldn't feel the way you do now.
Do you know why?
Because when you are in relationship with someone you build an emotional response, which is conditioned, in your neurology. The more you stay together (romantic way) the more you hardwire those neural pathways in your brain and that means you build more emotion (love).
So when you breakup with your ex there is a strong built up emotional attachment that makes you feel they way you do now. If there is no way of getting back together then there is a big problem in a way you process your thoughts. This is the reason you can't do your work properly. You become self-couscous about your looks because of emotional imbalance. This affects how you do activities and your over all behaviors.
The only way to get over this is to change the way you handle these emotions. You have to change how you feel about your ex.
Let me explain...
Take any book you can find around, hold it while looking at the front cover then turn it around and then look at it from the back, then from the sides. You will find that, it looks different depending on which side you are looking at. The book is the same but the way you look at it, changes.
Now, I'm not trying to compare your ex with the book. The point I want to make here is this, when you change the way you feel about your ex , break up will not affects you.
How can you do that?
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