You see! Some people think that it is not
easy to get over an ex . They will try to go back to that person calling him
or her all day hoping that will convince the ex to rekindle the old flame
which died many years ago.
If this rings the bell, you must understand that you have a problem. Do you
know why? Because your ex does not love you anymore, probably doesnít even
return your calls. He or she might even already forgot that you exist but
there you are, thinking about all the wonderful things you did together many
moons ago. I'll tell you this youíve got to get your life together.
The reason why you can't get over ex is not because you are in love or was
the perfect Angel.. It could be because you shared great times together but
that's not the reason why you think about him or her all day.
The real reason you can't get over your ex is because you have a void inside
you. Yes I'll repeat... you have a (BIG) void inside you. You haven't found
a solution to fulfill it yet so you think you can find it from someone else.
NO your ex won't be able to fulfill it for you. In fact no one will, others
might show you the direction but you alone can fulfill it.
Are you confused, here is what I mean, the kind of void I'm talking about is
called neediness. The kind of behavior some men and women have that they
canít be themselves. They think they have to have another person on their
side to feel special.
The funny thing is, it is the other person that makes them feel alive. If
they don't have one they become hopeless. If you are one of them then you
have to change that immediately.
What that mean is other people control your happiness, inner strength and
more importantly how you feel about yourself (self image). Everything about
you is determined by the person you are in relationship with. In other words
you can't be yourself until you have others approval.
You need to find what that void is, you need to ask yourself why you really
need that man or woman so bad, what makes you feel you need to be with that
person. Once you get the answer then dig deeper to find more answers. This
will help you to know what you really need. For example it could be
something like feeling important, maybe because no one recognized you when
you were a child.
Once you get the correct answer find things that will make you feel
important. Is it to learn how to speak new a language, helping a homeless
person in your town or taking a new adventure? It could be anything.
Once you have fulfilled your need you will feel more complete and confident
the character that will make you happy. If you didn't know attractive people
are very happy.
Forget Your Ex
will teach you to fulfill the void inside so that you can move on and start a
new relationship without being needy.